Does it feel like the external world never wants you to stop? Working, shopping, cleaning, cooking, eating, care-taking, making, doing, doing, doing...
Living in the doing can stop the flow of Being. I know that happens for me.
Thinking of all the things we need to DO sometimes makes us so overwhelmed that there's no room or energy for imagination.
When we feel stuck, sometimes the answer is to invite a hearty helping of creativity.
Instead of constant doing, we have...
Do you ever feel like everything is just too much?
You’re not alone. In so many ways, You Are Not Alone.
Last week, I had the honor of offering a resilience training for activists, hosted by Lisa Levinson from In Defense of Animals for their Sustainable Activism campaign. (Shared below).
While this training was specifically for animal activists, the message applies to everyone.
Each one of us is an activist in some way.
Whether it’s for animals, other social justice...
When I was 2, I started begging for a sibling. Instead of that, I got someone even better—Tippy. She was my birthday present when I turned 3. Tippy was every bit my sister. I took her everywhere and we did everything together. When she had puppies, I was her 6-year-old midwife. Luckily there were several willing homes for most of the puppies and thankfully, my mom got Tippy spayed after that. But the very best part was that we got to keep one of her puppies. I was thrilled!
Bleary-eyed, numb-handed, and red-nosed, my feet slid out from under me. Feeling awkward in my body and off-balance was a foreign experience for me.
Yesterday, I discovered my personal version of misery.
Last week was Olivia’s Spring Break. We each made a list of how we wanted to spend the week. She wanted lots of playdates and I wanted to do some organizing and deep cleaning. Yep, that’s one kind of fun for me—don’t judge.
We both got what we wanted,...
Exercise. It's one of the last things some of us make time for even though we know it's important.
What if you could integrate movement into your daily life or find something you enjoy doing so much that it makes "exercising" a breeze?
In this short video, I talk about how to transform what you think of as exercise.
Take a listen and let me know what you think in the comments below. How are YOU going to move your gorgeous body today?
As soon as I heard the question, my heart rate quickened and my mind raced around like a pinball as I searched for an acceptable answer.
After too long of a beat, “Ummm... I don’t know,” was all I could muster before I darted out of the room to avoid the question.
Kind of a silly response and especially unexpected if you knew me (I’m usually pretty straightforward and non-avoidant), but “What are you going to do for your birthday?!” can feel like a lot...
Is there something you've always wanted to do, but are a little afraid of? Yeah, me too.
Sometimes, taking care of ourselves includes stretching beyond what we think is possible and getting a little uncomfortable.
We recently celebrated my husband's birthday on Kauai and I completely stretched myself to do something I'd been wanting to for years—I got my first surfing lesson!
What an experience! Here are my reflections:
One of the best ways to reduce stress is to create little spots in your day to nurture yourself.
I'm a fan of simple and woven throughout the day, so today’s tip is easy to integrate into your life by using an everyday prompt like driving or waiting in line.
Instead of letting agitation escalate, test this out and notice how it helps dissolve tension in only a few seconds:
Growing up as the only child of a single workaholic mom, I spent a lot of time alone.
It often seemed like everyone else knew something I didn’t. I couldn’t escape the feeling that I was on the outside looking through a window watching everyone else enjoying the party of life.
When people asked if I was an only child, I thought they were asking if I was a lonely child.
To both, my answer was yes.
Much of my early life was a quest to find a feeling of Belonging.
Later, I found it,...
When I was growing up, my mom was a nurse. She told me that some of the best doctors believe that “If you listen long enough to a parent, they will tell you exactly how to help their child.”
As we become adults, we can learn to integrate and cultivate that knowing and loving parent who lives inside ourselves.
We need “only” uncover that inner wisdom.
That isn’t always an easy thing to do when we’ve grown up in a culture that has told us that we should look...
Want to know how it would feel if you moved yourself to the top of your priority list, could lovingly say "no" to what's not in alignment, and lived your life "on purpose?"